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Texas Intimacy Solutions is a unique relationship-centered psychotherapy practice serving couples and individuals online throughout Texas.

Texas Intimacy Solutions provides high-quality couples therapy, sex therapy, and individual counseling that is inclusive and affirming of all lifestyles, orientations, personal beliefs, and relationship styles.

Texas Intimacy Solutions is owned and operated by Hayden Lindsey, M.S., a Licensed Professional Counselor and AASECT-Certified Sex Therapist Candidate.

Popular Services

  • Sex Therapy

    Sex is a vulnerable topic rife with misinformation & judgment. Whether you have a specific issue you want to work through with a partner, or just want to explore sexual concerns with a competent, compassionate professional, I can help.

  • Relationship Repair

    Emotional bonds lie at the heart of intimacy. They are disrupted by a combination of injury and neglect. If your relationship has been affected by infidelity, addiction, or just good old-fashioned busy-ness, I am here to help you reconnect.

  • Breakups & Divorce

    Breakups at any stage are painful, but I believe they can also be springboards into enormous spiritual growth. Whether you’re calling it quits after 10 dates, 10 months, or 10 years, I am here to help you on the road to regaining peace and clarity.

  • Intentional Dating

    In our modern culture, dating has never been more important…or more difficult! Whether you’re back on the hunt after a long hiatus or dipping your toe in the dating pool for the first time, I can help you date with clarity, purpose, and passion.

  • Trauma, Grief, & Loss

    When loving together, losing together is unavoidable. One unspoken dimension of trauma & loss is the impact it has on our ability to get intimate and sexual needs met. I help couples hold fast in the wake of life’s greatest challenges.

  • Infidelity Counseling

    Nothing throws a couple into crisis quite like an infidelity. I help couples navigate the emotional turmoil of betrayal, make sense of an affair, assess the relationship for longevity, and repair their connection. I also offer individual support to partners on both sides of the hurtful event.

“Intimacy is the art of gathering the soul and revealing it to another. Its initiations are sometimes uncomfortable, but its practice is always sacred.”

— Hayden Lindsey

Services for Men

Men have unique strengths, needs, & vulnerabilities when it comes to sex, relationships, and intimacy but often struggle to find services geared towards their particular concerns. I am privileged to provide a therapeutic space where men and their partners can find comfort, guidance, and healing.

  • Individual Therapy

    Men often shy away from therapy for fear that they will be judged or “feminized.” I believe therapy for men is about promoting healthy, mature masculinity concurrently as we work through your presenting issues. I can help with depression, anxiety, substance abuse, anger problems, relationship issues, & more.

  • Group Therapy

    Disconnection and isolation lies at the heart of suffering for many men. The group setting is a wonderful place to feel supported and connected while you do the difficult work of self-development. Group can help you change a bad habit, process a break up, encourage you to take a chance, become a better husband/father, & more

 

Hayden Lindsey, M.S., LPC
(he/him)

Owner & Operator

My name is Hayden, and I specialize in helping people master the art of creating great relationships.

I founded Texas Intimacy Solutions to support courageous lovers at all stages of relationships. From intentional dating, to intimacy-building, relationship repair, and conscious separation, I wholeheartedly believe your relational and sexual health deserves as much attention as your physical health.

My broader mission is to help you deconstruct familial, cultural, and societal messaging about sex and relationships so that you can feel free to relate in the most authentic ways. I understand that relationships are not “one-size-fits-all.” I am prepared to support you regardless of lifestyle, orientation, personal beliefs, and relationship styles.

I believe love is your art. My job is to help you clear up anything that gets in the way of your best work. If you’re struggling, please reach out today.

Hayden Lindsey is a Licensed Professional Counselor (TX#76661), AASECT-Certified Sex Therapy Candidate, Men’s Coach, entrepreneur, singer/songwriter, ultramarathoner, and fulltime RVer.

You should never have to worry if you are welcome in therapy.

I established Texas Intimacy Solutions because I believe in the healing power of relationships. The foundation of all great relationships is emotional safety. And while I recognize that no relationship is 100% safe -- we are human after all! -- I remain committed to establishing, maintaining, and mending as necessary an inclusive, accepting space for all individuals regardless of race, ethnicity, nationality, emigration status, gender, gender expression, sexual orientation, religion, spirituality, age, ability, socioeconomic status, or any other characteristic.

The nature of therapy involves exploring thoughts, feelings, experiences, and beliefs. You deserve to be able to do this in a container that is free of judgment, discrimination, and imposition. You also deserve a clinician who will support you in understanding and deconstructing the influence of the various social, cultural, and institutional power structures that impact individual mental health and wellbeing. To that end, I aim to conduct therapy from an anti-racist, anti-oppressive, pro-feminist, sex positive, LGBTQ2IA+ affirming, de-stigmatizing, de-pathologizing, and de-colonizing perspective.

Part of building this therapeutic space is acknowledging my own identity and privilege. As a white, cis-hetero male, I recognize that I occupy a particular place in a society that is historically racist, sexist, individualistic, and materialistic. As I strive to untangle the impact of these forces on my own head and heart, I pledge to treat all of my clients to the best of my ability, to be mindful of and responsive to culture and identities in my work, and to commit myself to understanding your unique life experience on your terms, and not my own.

Hayden Lindsey, LPC

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